Psychic Energy Vampires
I have incessantly used the phrase "psychic vampire," or "energy vampire" to describe a person who extracts energy from others in order to survive of their world. We now have all heard of vampires, who feed on the blood of others. The psychic vampire feeds on the energy of others. Nevertheless it isn't usually a aware endeavor.
Narcissistic action is really an "unconscious" behavior. The perpetrator shouldn't be normally aware of how his actions are affecting others. Quite the opposite, the perpetrator typically feels he is the one being victimized. Narcissistic individuals are normally energy vampires.
How does one know when his/her energy is being harvested? It is really quite simple. Just be aware of how you're feeling around different people. Start making mental notes. Some individuals will leave you feeling blissful, energized, or nurtured. Others will depart you feeling drained, tired, depressed, indignant or confused in some way.
If the person who leaves you feeling tired and drained has this affect on you most of the time than they are likely an energy vampire. It's possible you'll enter the interplay or conversation feeling good about something and during the course of the dialog you are remodeled into feeling bad. For instance: Say you just received a big promotion at work and you might be really excited. You go residence from work and you might be high with excitement and share the nice news with your partner. He listens to you talk about your promotion and then says something like "Good for you! Hey did you take my blue water bottle this morning?"
O.K. his words weren't clearly cruel or condemning. He even said "good for you!" But somehow you're feeling that you haven't been heard and that he would not really share in your excitement. In fact it appears more that he might care less. You feel a plummet in your energy and all of a sudden you aren't feeling very excited anymore. You might reply by saying "No I have never seen your blue bottle!" And...he goes on to focus on the bottle asking you if you're positive you did not take it because you've got a habit of taking his stuff, etc.
The celebration of your promotion at work was minimize very short. The truth is if you want to celebrate at all you will want to call a pal who actually cares about you and your good news. However by now you might not really feel much like celebrating. You might feel that your promotion really is not that big of a deal after all. Especially because the person closest to you doesn't appear to think it is.
Everytime you feel a sudden plummet of your energy whether from a friend, an acquaintance, a co-worker or a partner or partner, you could be dealing with a psychic energy vampire.
A psychic vampire shouldn't be necessarily a psychic individual however rather somebody who preys on the psychic energy discipline around a person.
I'm very sensitive and read energy quite simply now. But in the past, I didn't know enough about this sensitivity to be able to interpret what was happening with me and why I often felt drained when around lots of people, or certain folks especially. Now I am pretty aware of what's going on around me and know when to go away a room or a situation.
I meet loads of psychic vampires who seem like just regular people going about their business. However here is what I notice. These type of people appear to want something from me. I discover the conversations are usually one sided where they're doing all of the talking and I'm doing all of the listening. There is no true interaction. If I try to relate or share something about myself pertaining to the dialog, I feel as if I'm not at all heard. My contribution is passed up as they continue their dialog as if I have never said a word.
When I ask myself what the intention of these individuals is likely to be I see they are looking for admiration, approval, positive feedback, are trying to sell me something or get me to believe something. If I begin to feel aggravated, drained, or tired, I instantly excuse myself and depart the conversation.
In healthy relationships we feed every other. We share energy. Certainly one of us is likely to be feeling down and the opposite can encourage us and say things to help us which can deliver us up. Other times we are those helping and encouraging the other. It is a give and take energy trade that's mutually beneficial. Nonetheless with energy vampires, there is no such thing as a give and take, only take. They haven't any energy of their own reserves to give.
A psychic vampire or energy vampire is an emotionally and spiritually depleted individual. He doesn't have an internal life and isn't spiritually connected to life. He has spent his life extracting energy from the outside instead of learning methods to go within and domesticate his own inner garden.
Think of the human body and its need for vitamins and minerals. Our our bodies have the ability to fabricate most of what we'd like from within if given the suitable vitamins and building blocks. But for example a person eats nothing however junk food after which takes a lot of vitamins. He's relying on this exterior substance to feed him instead of feeding his body healthy substances that build his body on a cellular level. If he truly needed to be healthy he would be taught that he needed to cleanse out all of the toxins which have been accumulating from years of bad consuming after which start taking in high nutrient dense meals to rebuild his body.
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